A person once told me that friends/lovers come into our lives for a season; it could be a short one, or even last several years, but it's just like the seasons - they come, and they go. Trying to hold on to it only makes it's passing that much more unbearable, and you are also keeping the next season from coming into your life. Allow life to pass on as it needs, and embrace whatever it brings next. Each moment we have the ability to enjoy this world the way it is right now, it only requires us to chose a state of happiness over misery.
Getting over an ex is like having a hangover.
You feel bad, like you might throw up. Can't eat or sleep much, your head hurts.
The trick is to keep moving, keep busy. If you sit still, all you can think about is your terrible hangover, wondering when it's going to go away. But hangovers fade away slowly, so if you wait for it to be over, it seems like it never will.
If you just go about your business as best you can though, you don't even realise it til later but suddenly; all the pain's gone.
And then you're ready to drink again!
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just read this in a forum. Thought i'd post it here since its so meaningful for me
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